Trauma No. Drama Definitely Yes… mmm?
Some people I talk to seem to be resistant to the idea that they have childhood “Trauma”. Or that they suffer from any type of Trauma. But I bet if you ask them differently about the Drama that goes down in their family, between siblings, parents and the like… they prob embrace it and laugh it off, and can tell you countless stories about some pretty fucked up shit. They could even show you on social media. Let’s face it, every family has a shit ton of drama, therefore every child experiences a shit ton of drama. And for lack of better words we won’t call it trauma, but the effects of listening to parent yell at each other, or siblings who constantly judge each other, or parents who put a lot of pressure on their kids (or no pressure at all on); parents who are involved (or not involved), traditional families, single mothers and dads raising kids, kids without parent(s), the world is populated by a ginormous hodgepodge of souls who, some would say and I wouldn’t disagree, to say that we all chose our parents and are having this experience for a really big and profound reason, to which we find, or don’t find, is our purpose.
But in case some of you are “triggered” by me saying you most certainly are suffering from some type of childhood trauma, I’ll throw drama in there for ya ;) Guess what, we all got it! Now… what are you gonna do about it? Do you want to stay in the hamster wheel of life repeating the same “drama” your parents did and caused you to your kids? Ask yourself right now, could it be better? Could you drop some of your habits that are not serving you and create a better life? That’s what I’m in it for. I’m diving full in, ready to end the cycle. That is my purpose to myself, to my children, my partner, my family and to all the people I meet along the way.
Your presence is an honor as much as I can honor myself in your presence.
I will honor you by offering my full presence and dedication to you as a coach, guide and facilitator on your path to personal healing and transformation.
I think I just channeled some Rumi there in 3 lines.. :) What do you think?
With loving kindness,
Chas Vergauwen